I was very hesitant to purchase this for a long time, because I wasn't sure if I would be able to get any of it to come in touch with my prostate. By the time I convinced myself to put the money down on it, I owned the Pure Wand, the Pfun Plug, the Fun Wand, and the small and large versions of the Pure Plug.I never really cared for the Fun Wand or the small version of the Pure Plug, and the large Pure Plug felt nice and heavy, but just wasn't deep enough to hit the P spot.Having started with the small end of the Fun Wand and absolutely loving it after a few uncomfortable tries over a few weeks, I graduated to enjoying the Pfun Plug, then the large version of the Pure Plug, and landed at truly njoy-ing the large 1.5" end of the Fun Wand.The ridges by the "small" 1.75 inch end on the Eleven intrigued me. The size of the small end seemed like a mouth watering challenge, and I finally took the plunge!When the Eleven arrived, and I held it in my hand, it felt like a weapon! And I knew it would take a while to work up to it, and it did take a few tries over a couple of weeks. I do need to warm up with the large end of the Fun Wand (1.5") to be able to get the small end (1.75") of the Eleven in.The first time the 1.75" of steel gently, but very persistently, stretched past my well-lubed rectum, I winced at the ever-continuing stretch, and gasped at how amazing it felt when the widest party was on the other side and got sucked into position. And how FULL!It's been a few months of regular use now, and I have discovered that the ridges feel ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE against the prostate if you incorporate a twisting motion on the toy with gentle thrusting. It's unbelievable that the ridges were an afterthought by the designer of the toy - something he threw in at the last minute as a hand grip for using the large end.I have not been successful with the large end yet. Maybe the Pure Plug 2.0 XL that I have recently acquired (and was successful with the very first time) will help me with the larger end.DO expect an arm workout with this toy. But hey, at least you can say you njoyed your workout!I will be receiving the Liberator Bonbon this weekend and hope to be successful in using the Eleven with it.You know, durability is not normally a quality ascribed to things that people stick in themselves (or others) for pleasure. I've never had a jelly or silicone toy that could survive being thrown through a plate glass window or get run over by a (small) truck. This toy is an exception, even over the shoulders of the other stainless steel toys made by this company.If you intend to use this product on someone's backdoor, I suggest vaseline in lieu of your normal lubricant. Because vaseline will cover the small tears that may occur if you're a little too eager with the big end. The small end is manageable and the ribs get rave reviews. The big end could end a marriage. That's an exaggeration, but it's necessary to get across the point. This thing is steel, which is slick. You don't get the kind of friction that you get with more common materials and toys. So, it may move in deeper faster than planned.Just about everything else that people put inside themselves gives a little if you squeeze it tight. Dildos, most plugs. They've got at least a little bit of give. Even a hand will give a little. My eager partner made a little buck with her hips while I was easing this in and POW! in it went. She was quite animated, but it was already inside and it took time to get it out without hurting her (more).Looking forward to whatever they put out next. Great product.OMG - this toy is simply awesome. It reaches into places I didn't even know I had! My husband was (and is still) a bit intimidated by it, but I've showed him how to use it to get me all "worked up" and let's just say he REALLY liked the results! And it's great for solo play, too. When I first saw it I thought, "Whoa - that thing's a BEAST - I'll never be able to use the large end," but by first warming up with the NJoy Pure Wand (which is also fabulous, by the way), and using plenty of lube, it slid right in. And O! what a sensation! Just as some of the other purchasers have said, it's impeccably crafted, it's beautiful to look at and a pleasure to hold, it will never wear out, it's a snap to clean, and it gets the job done. Plus, if a burglar ever breaks into your bedroom at night, you have a VERY formidable weapon. (LOL - Just visualize the newspaper headline: "Burglar knocked senseless with massive dildo"!) I've been coveting the Eleven for a long time, and it took me awhile to talk myself into shelling out the money for this quite expensive item, but this is probably the last sex toy you'll ever need to buy.This is one of the most amazing dildos you will ever experience. It's obviously fairly large and not for beginners, but that's not special- there are a lot of big dildos out there. The real difference-maker is the WEIGHT of this thing. It will fill you up but make you feel so much fuller than that.All of that having been said, this thing is almost 3 pounds of solid steel and is therefore a weapon.It should be used with great care and respect or someone's going to get hurt.The fact that it can be easily boiled for cleaning is a huge bonus too. However, your standard kitchen tongs are probably not strong enough to remove it from the water. I highly recommend looping a little chain or something similar around it when boiling to make it easier to remove from the pot.Recently had a birthday and decided "this year I am going to masturbate more." My first impression of Njoy 11 was a mix of excitement and intimidation. Not my first sex toy but first toy for the purpose of penetration. Honestly I'm so happy with this purchase--if you're a beginner make time for plenty of foreplay and then take it slow duh (: